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Think someone ditched you on Snapchat? From disappearing stories to the mysterious X icon, uncover the silent signs that say you’ve been unadded.
People quietly disappear from Snapchat all the time. One minute you’re swapping goofy selfies, the next, nothing. And unlike when someone adds you, Snapchat doesn’t ping you when they kick you off their list. It’s subtle. Quiet. Sometimes weirdly personal.
But you can still figure it out. There are little signs I always check when I get that gut feeling that someone unadded me on Snapchat. Here’s what to look for and how to confirm it without guessing.
If someone unadds you, you’re still kind of there… but not really. It’s not the same as being blocked. You’ll still show up as a follower, but you lose a lot of visibility. Here’s what changes:
Weirdly enough, Snapchat still lets you message them. You can send snaps too. But just because it says “Delivered” doesn’t mean they ever actually see it. It just floats there, unread.
There’s a big difference between getting unadded and being straight-up blocked. Unfriending is sneakier. Blocked? That’s more final. Here’s how I break it down:
Feature / Action | Unfriending (Unadding) | Blocking |
---|---|---|
Visibility of Snap Score | Hidden from you | Hidden from you |
Chat/Snap Status | Messages show as Delivered but remain unopened | Messages cannot be sent at all |
Story Access | You can’t see private Stories (only public if available) | You can’t see any Stories |
Friend List Removal | Only you are removed from their friend list | Both of you are removed from each other’s lists |
Notification to You | No notification | No notification |
Can You Re-add Them? | Yes, unless they decline | No, until they unblock you |
Do They Still Appear in Search? | Yes | No |
Previous Chat History | Visible unless deleted | Hidden/vanished completely |
Snapchat keeps things vague on purpose, which is fine until you’re trying to figure out if someone low-key unadded you. I’ve picked up on a few dead giveaways over time.
Normally, if you’re friends, you’ll see a Camera or Chat icon next to their name. That means you can send a Snap or pick up where you left off. But once that icon turns into an X, that’s a red flag.
The X could mean:
If you know that icon was a Camera before, then yeah… they’ve probably unadded you.
When I’m friends with someone on Snapchat, I always see that little phone and video icon at the top of the chat screen. But if they unadd me? Those icons vanish. Poof.
Even if your past chat is still there, the missing call buttons tell you everything you need to know.
A full Snapchat profile is packed with fun stuff: Bitmoji, birthday, Snapstreaks, Charms, even those goofy horoscopes. But when someone unadds you, that all disappears.
Here’s what I do:
Just because someone shows up in search doesn’t mean they’re still your Snapchat friend. If you really want to confirm it:
This one always hits hard. One day you’re watching their Private Stories. The next, nada. If you stop seeing them in your Friends Stories and they only show up under “Subscriptions,” that’s a red flag.
Or worse, they vanish completely.
Snapchat is sneaky. You can still send a Snap to someone who unadded you. It even says “Delivered.” But if days go by and it’s still not opened even though you see them posting Stories and being active, that Snap is just sitting there, untouched.
Snapchat doesn’t give you a list of who you unadded, but there’s a workaround I use when I’m feeling nosy:
Here’s what changes:
You can, but it’s kind of a process. First, you need to remove them from your list if they’re still there. Then you can send a fresh request.
There’s no magic formula, but I’ve learned a few things that help:
It stings when someone unadds you, especially if it feels out of nowhere. But with these signs, you can stop wondering and just know. And hey, sometimes it’s a glitch. If you’re really not sure, just ask them. Nothing wrong with being direct.
FAQs
Check their profile. If you can’t see their Snap Score or private Stories anymore, they probably removed you.
Yep. You can send it, and it’ll even say “Delivered.” But unless they add you back, it’s just sitting there unread.
Can someone see that I viewed their Snapchat Story if we’re not friends?
If it’s public, yes. They’ll see your name in the viewer list even if you’re not friends anymore.
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